Surrey · London · the Home Counties

Live-in & home care, matched by a nurse.

DebbiesCare is the UK membership home where families find a verified private carer near them — for live-in care, respite or hourly support. Hand-matched by a real CARE Coach (a nurse, not an algorithm) — usually within 48 hours.

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ID, DBS & reference checked Matched in 48 hours No agency commission
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Maeve, your CARE Coach
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Hello — I see you're looking for support for your mum at home. Tell me a little about her week?
She's been forgetting meds. I think we need someone three afternoons a week.
Got it. I'll shortlist 4 caregivers near you with medication-management experience.

Find each other

A searchable directory of verified caregivers and the families who need them — built on trust, not algorithms.

Talk to a real coach

Every family member gets 1:1 access to a CARE Coach — a human guide through the questions you don't know how to ask.

Learn from the library

Care plans, dementia guides, conversation scripts, paperwork templates — written by practitioners, kept up to date.

How it works

Three small steps, one big difference.

01
Tell us who you are

Caregiver or family — sign up in two minutes and build your profile.

02
Meet your match

Browse the directory or let your CARE Coach hand-pick a shortlist for you.

03
Stay supported

Message securely in-app, draw on the resource library, lean on your coach.

How we compare

An introductory service — not an agency, not a directory.

We vet self-employed carers and hand-match them to your family. You hire directly — typically 30–50% less than an agency. See how we compare to PrimeCarers, TrustedCare, homecare.co.uk, Elder, Careship and Curam.

FeatureDebbiesCarehomecare.co.ukElderCareshipCuram
ModelMembership communityDirectory & reviewsLive-in care agencyMarketplaceMarketplace
Human CARE Coach (not an algorithm)
90-Day nurse-led transition support
Verified, ID-checked caregivers
Direct pay — no agency commissionn/a
Family membership cost£19/moFree listingsFrom ~£1,295/wkPay per hourPay per hour
Caregiver cost / commission£14.99/mo flatn/aEmployed by agencyService fee per hourService fee per hour
Weekly live family call
Caregiver business coaching

Comparison based on publicly available information from each provider as of 2026. Pricing and features may vary — check each site for the latest.

Membership

Simple, honest pricing.

One plan for caregivers building their practice. One for families looking after someone they love.

For Caregivers

Caregiver

Build your profile, grow your practice, and design a business beyond hands-on care.

Free14-day trial
then £14.99/month. Cancel anytime.
  • Verified caregiver profile, discoverable by families
  • Direct in-app messaging — no commission on hours
  • Full continuing-care resource library
  • CARE community calls & peer support
  • Optional: 1:1 Trained Nurse coaching add-on (£499)
Personal Brand & Mobile Business Program

30 days of weekly group coaching with a Trained Nurse. Design your personal brand beyond care, build a mobile business, and create digital products. £499.

Start free trial
90-Day Transition Program available
For Families

Family

Join the live community call. Add a paid consultation when you need carer matching and real-time support.

£49/month
For your first 90 days, then £24.99/month. Cancel anytime.
  • Access to the weekly live family call
  • Browse verified caregiver profiles
  • Resource library: care plans, checklists, guides
  • Eligible to book the 90-Day Transition Program
90-Day Transition Program — from £499

Hand-matched with the best carer for your parent, plus 90 days of real-time support from a Trained Nurse. Peace of mind and stability through the transition. Complex-needs pricing on request.

Join as a family
Where we cover

Surrey, London & the Home Counties.

Pick your area for local pricing and verified carers serving it. New towns added every month.

Common questions

The questions families actually ask.

Honest answers to the things people search at 11pm, the night before they pick up the phone.

How do I get a private carer for my mum?

Tell us how her week actually looks — mornings, meds, meals, the bits that worry you. A CARE Coach matches her with verified caregivers near you in 48 hours. You meet them and choose. No agency allocates anyone to you.

How quickly can a carer start?

Most Surrey and London families have a shortlist within 2 working days and a carer in the home within a week. Hospital discharge and urgent respite are usually faster.

Who pays for care at home?

Most private home care in England is self-funded if savings are above £23,250. Below that the council contributes. Attendance Allowance (£72.65 or £108.55 a week) is not means-tested and helps. NHS Continuing Healthcare can cover the full cost when needs are primarily health-related.

What about nights?

Live-in carers do undisturbed nights as standard. If your loved one is up more than twice a night, we pair them with two carers on rotation — DebbiesCare flags this honestly rather than burning out one carer.

Are your carers really vetted?

Every caregiver on DebbiesCare is ID-checked, reference-verified, right-to-work confirmed, and DBS-checked. You see their qualifications and previous families' feedback before you meet.

Built on trust

Every caregiver is verified. Every conversation is private.

We check IDs, references, and qualifications. Your messages with your coach and your matches stay between you.

See how we verify